do not desire and anticipate the man you’re dating to change, since he won’t. Indeed, people can and do change…but only when they’re encouraged. Only if they need to transform, if they’ve a reason that is vital that you them.
Then he may prioritize them first for the rest of his life if your boyfriend is immersed in his work, friends, hobbies, or goals right now. Are you able to deal with this? If you want this link to operate, you’ll want to believe that the man you’re seeing doesn’t have some time for you now, and he likely won’t have enough time for your needs after you collect hitched, settle into a household, while having children together. (more…)